
News and commentary on the life of the person behind this blog and on events in Sweden and around the world. Personal anecdotes, OP-Eds, reading suggestions, etc. Enjoy, and comment!
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Abstaining from the Truth
"More and more Americans promise to abstain from sex before marriage, zealously supported by President Bush. But only every tenth keeps his/her promise.
Solemn promises of a life in celibacy until your wedding day ought to be quite difficult to demand of the drinkers at the clubs in Stockholm - and of the rest of Sweden. Statistics show that young Swedes on average make their sexual debut at 16. In the USA however, there is a nation-wide movement to persuade the youngest to practise abstinence. President Bush supports the work and Congress has assigned 131 million dollar to abstinence teaching. As a rule the debated is conducted with Christian characteristics. But the problems with teenage abortion, spread of HIV, and STDs have made a great deal of people outside of church listen. Since 1993 the movement True Love Waits has alone convinced 2,4 million young Americans to sign a promise of chastity:
'As a believe that true love waits, I commit before God, myself, my family, those I date and my future partner to remain sexually untouched until the day I enter into marriage'.
The effectiveness of the abstinence model is however strongly questioned by scientists. And many sexuality specialists believe that medical arguments can make more people wait than can promises to God. Especially if the promises are not kept anyway.
A new scientific report from the University of Columbia shows that 88 % of those who have given a promise of celibacy have not kept it. The frequency of STDs among these people was just short of as high as among those who had not promised to abstain. Those who broke their promises, quickly came even with the promise-free group by having many partners in a short period of time.A study at the A&M University in Bush's homestate Texas has showed a similar result. Among teenagers who have been taught abstention, the number of people making their sexual debut following the end of the course increased, in particular among the boys. The many young people getting pregnant in the USA are petitioned more and more firmly by abortion opponents. Around the country these organisations offer free ultrasounds in order to persuade women to reassess. Spokesmen claim that up to 90 % of these women have abandoned the thought of abortion after having undergone these examinations.
The abortion advocates accuse these clinics for leading the women to continue their pregnancies. At the same time these women do no get any information about contraceptives. Instead they are encourage to - exactly - abstain from sex."
I just read another article on the subject (from October 2007), by Amanda Robb at the New York Times, titled "Abstinence 1, S-Chip 0"
"DEMOCRATIC leaders are right to contest President Bush’s veto of their bill to expand the State Children’s Health Insurance program. But sadly, their “bipartisan compromise” will leave millions of young Americans vulnerable to sickness and suffering of the most preventable kind.
To entice Republicans to support the bill, the House of Representatives agreed to increase money for abstinence-only sex education by $28 million, to a total of about $200 million a year. Abstinence-only courses, the only form of federally financed sex ed, teach that sexual activity outside of marriage is likely to cause psychological and physical harm. If that were true, our health care system would be not only broken, but besieged. A 2002 survey found that 93 percent of American adults had had premarital sex by the age of 30.
In addition to provoking shame about a nearly universal activity, abstinence-only sex education is ineffective and dangerous. Last April, a 10-year study found that students who took abstinence-only courses were no more likely to abstain from sex than other students. Previous studies revealed that abstinence-only students avoid using contraception.
Programs in public schools teach patently false information like 'the chances of getting pregnant with a condom are one out of six' and H.I.V. 'may be in your body for a long time (from a few months to as long as 10 years or more) before it can be detected.'
The results are tragic. The United States has the highest teenage pregnancy rate in the developed world (about the same as Ukraine’s), and the highest abortion rate in the Western world. Sexually transmitted infections like syphilis and gonorrhea are on the rise for the first time since the 1980s, and chlamydia is being diagnosed twice as often as it was a decade ago.
Among Americans living in poverty — those who might see the $4 price of a three-pack of condoms as the take-home pay for an hour of work at minimum wage — the unintended pregnancy rate has increased 30 percent since 1994. Our teenage pregnancy and abortion rates have declined during the last decade, but research suggests this is mainly because of increased use of condoms, something young people must learn about outside of school.
By dropping the financing for abstinence-only sex ed, Congress could save enough money to insure 150,000 children a year. And it would also demonstrate much needed resolve to protect all aspects of children’s health."
I can't believe that in 2008 some people still have such old-fashioned views and are turning a blind eye to the evidence and the social reality around them. Scary.
Chilled Chili!
Friday, May 16, 2008
Show & Tell: Cool and Refreshing
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
I Am What I Read
1. Which was the latest book that you read?
"The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid" by Bill Bryson. I really love Bill Bryson and have read probably 5 or 6 of his books!
2. Which book are you going to read next?
I have about 30 books on my shelves that I haven't read yet.... I'm quite the shopaholic when it comes to books but then don't get around to reading as much as I would want to, partly due to this blog (and reading other people's blogs) taking too much of my time... I have started "The Undercover Economist" but I think I need to read something fiction as well/instead.
3. Do you have more male or female authors among your books?
I have no idea actually, probably a mix. Whether the book is written by a man or a woman does not influence me when buying or reading a book.
4. When reading a book, do you count down the number of pages that you have left, or do you think "now I've read one fourth", "one third", "yes, half!", etc.?
Sometimes, but mostly if I'm bored with it. Although sometimes I don't want it to end, for example I wouldn't have minded "The Thunderbolt Kid" being much longer!
5. How do you choose what books to read? For example the cover, recommendations from friends, book reviews, bestseller lists, blogs, etc.?
I'm a member of a couple of book clubs (the kind that has a monthly magazine with a monthly book that you need to cancel if you don't want that month's delivery) and get recommendations from them. In addition to that I also listen to friends, read blogs and look at bestseller lists on different book selling sites. When I'm at the book store I'm quite influenced by the cover as well.
6. When does a book become too long?
Never in terms of number of pages, but pretty soon if it's boring.
7. Do you happily read in English (if it is the original language)?
This is a blog in English so I have to say yes. But actually it is true, it's always better to read books in their original language, the problem is that when it comes to the other languages I have studied (besides my mother tongue Swedish and my "second language" English), French and Spanish, my reading skills are not at the level that I would really appreciate the subleties of the language.
8. Which book was the most recent one you felt you just had to persuade ALL your friends to read?
I can't remember, I recommend a lot of books, but the ones I've really tried to "sell" in the last few years are "A Short History of Nearly Everything" by Bill Bryson, "A Heartbreaking Work of a Staggering Genius" by Dave Eggers, "Collapse" by Jared Diamond and "Bitterfittan" by Maria Sveland.
9. Can you put away a book without finishing it? If so, when do you give up?
No, I always feel that I have to complete it but I sometimes put it away for months before I make myself finish it. It feels very strange not to finish.
10. What genre is overrepresented in your bookcase, and which genres are completely missing?
Probably non-fiction current affairs or other facts books (such as Bill Bryson's science book or "The Undercover Economist". I don't have any fantasy books, unless you count "Harry Potter" but those are really Peter's book (they are still on my to read-list).
Lingua Franca
| You Should Learn French |
You are definitely a Parisian at heart. You just need your tongue to catch up... |
Luckily I already know French (well, used to is probably the more correct phrase...) so I don't need to do anything! ;) C'est super!
Monday, May 12, 2008
Education: Big Money and Free Market?
This year 560 applications reached the Agency for Education in its capacity as reviewer and approver of independent school licences. Today 9.1% of Swedish compulsory school pupils and 17.4% of upper secondary school pupils attend an independent school. In some bigger cities, e.g. around Stockholm, independent schools cater for almost 50% of the pupils, while some rural, often northern towns have no or very few independent providers.
Initially most of the independent providers were parent co-operatives or association and trusts, i.e. non-profit organisations, but today most of the schools are owned and run by big education chains, a development which has its pros and cons. Since independent schools in Sweden are allowed to make a profit and filter back that profit to its owners (often venture capital and similar organisations), it makes sense that more and more companies want to have a piece of the cake, and that they want to grow. Economies of scale, makes sense. By the way, this is a very different situation to the UK where profit in the education sector is not allowed. This has however not stopped the Swedish education provider Kunskapsskolan, which is making an entry into the UK education market.
The National Agency for Education, and others, have expressed concerns over the disrepancy between the legislation - and the intent of the reforms - and the current situation and the consequences for society's control over these schools and the school system as a whole. Swedish municipalities are responsible for the education of its minor citizens, but what happens when all or a majority of pupils choose another school? How do they keep the municipal school open or in other ways prepare for having to take in a substantial group of pupils when an independent school close down (for whatever reason: bankrupcy, withdrawal of permit, etc.)?
The Swedish education sector has changed over the last 15 years but the legislation regulating independent schools has not been amended since 1994. The law talks about independent schools as a complement to the municipal schools, for example other types of pedagogical methods, and not big chains with schools all over the country. Despite a completely new and different situation, the regulation about municipalities' responsibility and obligation for education provision has not changed. When an independent school has applied for a permit in a certain municipality the Agency for Education especially looks at the municipality's consequence assessment, including pupil prognoses and possible effects on the schools and education programmes already provided in the region. Unfortunately the quality of the consequence assessments is varying and some municipalities do not have the resources to do one.
Another current topic is how many schools does the sector have room for when the competition for pupils gets tougher? And how long can independent (and municipal) schools compete on different conditions? According to the Agency for Education the risk of over-establishment is huge and the number of applications is a surprise to them. The development in the Swedish school sector has occurred at a time when the age cohorts have been large and growing, but next year is the peak before the numbers start to shrink. The competition will lead to both independent and municipal schools being forced to re-organise or close down. To give an example, in one Swedish municipality last year's applications to start independent schools covered 7,700 education places in a town with only 4,500 pupils.
The Agency for Education argue that the municipalities are badly prepared for tougher competition. Since the municipalities by law still have the utmost responsibility for the education in the area they must always have a preparedness for a transfer of students from independent schools and for having to keep a school open despite a low number of pupils. As government organisations however, municipalities are more slow-moving creatures than independent schools and they cannot get rid of personnel or facilities easily, which means that the cost per pupil increases in such a situation. The ability to plan long-term is diminished. A municipality thus risks both school closures and increased costs for its pupils' education. Since the independent schools do not have the same obligations and responsibilities, they conditions are not the same for the two types of actors. The education market is not a level playing field.
In addition to the "market factors", there are also other differences in conditions between independent and municipal schools. The principle of free access to public records (the famous Swedish offentlighetsprincipen) does not apply to independent schools. The Justice Ombudsman or the Attorney General do not have jurisdiction here. The only inspection that takes place is that of the Agency for Education, and the municipalities have some right of insight into the independent providers in their area. This means that in municipalities with very many independent school the citizens have very little control over a major part of the local school system.
The government is starting to address some of these issues by looking at how to increase national government control (through agencies such as the Agency for Education) over the school system and how to make the conditions for independent and municipal schools more equal, but the "solution" is not obvious. There are also other negative aspects of the present competition in the education sector, such as the methods used by schools (municipal and independent alike) to attract students, for example, through flashy brochures and offering laptops and other perks, instead of competing on the quality of the education and pedagogy. But that's a topic for a future blog post!
Source: Skolverket/National Agency for Education
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Sad News
Copied in is an e-mail from a friend of Michael's with details on what could be done in memory of Michael, in case any of you out there happened to also know Michael.
Although Michael parted ways with the [Catholic] church as he grew older, no one cared for poor, marginalized people and people who had been victimised by war and ethnic conflict as much as Michael did. That, to me, is so central to living a Catholic life and also so central to so many of our other great religious traditions and secular moral values. Simply put, no matter our faith, these are values that so many of us share -- and Michael exemplified them as well as anyone could."
CONDOLENCES -- The Bhatia family would love to hear from Michael's friends. They can be reached at [address available upon request]. Please do not send flowers; in lieu of flowers they are asking for contributions to a scholarship fund (see below).
FUNERAL SERVICE -- Services will be held during a Catholic mass at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Medway, Massachusetts. A date has not yet been set. Funeral arrangements will be made by Crowley Funeral Home at 3 Barber Street in Medway.
SCHOLARSHIP FUND -- A bunch of us would like to set up a scholarship fund to honor Michael's memory. His mother has embraced this idea and we will set this up as soon as we can. We would appreciate the assistance and involvement of anyone else if you would like to honor Michael in this way. The contact person for now is the class president for the 2001 Marshalls, Alan Trammell (amtrammell@gmail.com).
In these moments, I appreciate more than ever our friends from our group at Oxford and I know that Michael would be so touched by all of our mutual expressions of love and support. Michael's mother has requested that this information be disseminated widely to all who knew him so please forward this email.
More info at the Watson Institute for International Studies.
Friday, May 09, 2008
Show & Tell: Breakfast
I have never understood those who skip breakfast. That said, I don't eat a hearty breakfast every day and I'm a bit boring I guess because I tend to eat the same thing almost every day; two pieces of dark/rye/fibre-rich bread with either cheese or messmör, a glass of juice and a cup of tea. Sometimes I replace one of the pieces of bread with yoghurt or filmjölk with cereal. I never drink coffee with my breakfast but as soon as get to work I have some.
At the weekend I usually eat a little less healthy by trading the nutricious bread for toast with jam or marmelade. We have one of this advanced juice machines though so sometimes we make fresh fruit juice which hopefully evens out the intake of less healthy toast. Peter usually goes out either Saturday or Sunday to buy some freshly baked bread and croissants so that's another weekend treat for me. Sometimes we make eggs and bacon or American pancakes but that's just one weekend a month or so depending if we're heading out and planning to have lunch in town or not.
One of my favourite breakfast is a proper English breakfast but since that's difficult to find in Sweden I have to make a couple of trips to England a year to fill my baked beans need. Of course I could buy a can of it together with the other ingredients but it's not the same...
Doesn't it look yummy?!
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
Abort now!*
I'm a bit worried by the latest developments on the issue of abortion in the EU. European Parliamentary Forum (EPF) has just published a new survey of European parties' view on abortion, which concludes that 36 out of 75 parties, mainly Social Democrat, Liberal and Left parties, are in favour of the right to abortion. EPF defined this as "still big support for" the right to abortion, as some of the parties that don't specifically express the right to abortion in their party manifesto implicitly support the right, but to me, that isn't good enough. Actually I don't know what the views of the party was last year or five years ago or ten years ago, but it feels like people are questioning this fundamental right for women to decide over their own body.
Belgium, Denmark, the Netherlands and Sweden are some of the countries where there is broad consensus on the right to abortion (though one wonders sometimes what the Swedish Christian Democrats really think), while parties in Ireland, Poland and the UK are more divided. For example, in the UK there are differing opinions within the Labour party if the right to abortion on socio-economic grounds should be extended or restricted.
24 of the 75 surveyed parties want to reduce the number of abortion, which is not obviously the same as wanting to ban them, but it depends how (and why) you want to reduce them. The Swedish Christian Democrats, Liberals, the Centre Paty and the Left party belong to this category although the Christian Democrats want to restrain the grounds for the right to abortion. I can also support measures that reduce the number of abortions if these concentrate on the causes of unwanted pregnancies, increasing access to and use of contraceptives and discouraging the use of abortion as a type of contraceptive, but any means that try to limit women's right and access to abortion is really a no-no for me. I think it's probably safe to say that countries where abortion is banned or restricted have as high number of abortions as countries where access is free, and more women in dying in the process.
Some facts about the right to abortion in the EU
Completely free until at least twelve weeks into pregnancy: Belgium, Bulgaria, Denmark, Estonia, France, Greece, Italy, Latvia, Lithuania, the Netherlands, Portugal, Slovakia, Slovenia, Sweden, Czech Republic, Germany and Hungary
Allowed on socio-economic grounds (also to save the women's life and on physical and psychological grounds): Cyprus, Finland, Luxembourg and Great Britain
Allowed only to protect physical health: Poland
Allowed only to protect mental health: Spain, Northern Ireland
Allowed only to save the woman's life: Ireland
Sources: Europaportalen and Political Party Mapping by European Parliamentary Forum on Population and Development
Sunday, May 04, 2008
Questionned
1. How long have you been blogging?
Since 29 September 2004 but I only posted twice that autumn and started for real on 22 March 2005
2. What was your view of blogs and bloggers a month before you started blogging yourself?
Blogs were pretty new and exciting and my friend - Nonna - had started one, so I wanted to join the club. I figured I also had things to write that people might find interesting :)
3. What was the first blog you fell in love with?
I can't really remember but the first two I read regurly and which inspired my own blogging were Nonna's as mentioned above, and Tomato and Basil Sandwiches.
4. What do you think about your first blog posts when you read them now?
They are pretty good, some short but some pretty long and attempts to be a bit political. I didn't know how to post pictures then, or, I knew but it wasn't as easy on Blogger as it is now, so I lack illustrations.
5. How many blogs do you read regularly?
At least 30. Those in the link list to the left and some other ones.
6. Of the bloggers you read, how many are diary blogs and how many are subject blogs/e.g. technology, fashion, politics blogs?
A mix of everything. Most are general, every-day blogs but I read a few politics blogs. I hardly ever read targetted fashion, design or travel (etc.) blogs though. I like the mix of entries in each blog.
7. Recommend (and link to) a blogger who is very different to you, whose blog you like?
Alvas pappa (Alva's dad) blogs about his daughter and being a father, so that's obviously something I can't relate to, but I enjoy reading his blog a lot (and I hope he won' stop blogging!).
8. Recommend (and link to) a blogger who is very much like you, whose blog you like?
Lullun in Greenland lives a very different life to mine (so I guess she would qualify under (7) too, but as I begin to get to know her (through the Internet world at least) I feel that we have very similar personalities and interests.
9. What do your closest family and friends think about your blogging?
Most of my friends don't know that I blog (even if I'm wrong they are very bad at commenting or ever mentioning it). My mum reads it regularly and seems to enjoy it. Some of my relatives also read it and as they are bloggers themselves, I assume they are positive towards it. My boyfriend used to read it a lot in the beginning of our relationship but now not as much (though I have complained about that!) - it was a bit unfair actually as he learned all these things about me without having to ask! :)
10. Do people who know you think that you are yourself in your blog?
I think so. I try to be myself at least and write only my own opinions or take on things. Thereof the name of the blog: Anna, Fair and True!
11. Have you found a good balance for how private and personal you want to be in your blog, or do you move the boundaries all the time?
Yes, I think I started out pretty good and I have kept that "system". I have never intented to be neither anonymous and secret nor write about everything I do, think, feel and post a lot of personal photos (especially of family and friends who may not want their face on the Internet).
12. Name a few things you would never blog about and why?
I probably wouldn't blog about difficult things I was going through, or at least not tell the whole story, and I wouldn't rat on friends or others who could get hurt. I also sometimes avoid topics that I don't know enough about and don't feel qualified to debate.
13. To what extent do you blog for self-confirmation?
Part of it for my ego, I won't deny that. It's fun to write something and hear what people think about it. But it's not only about that but about getting people engaged in discussion, feeling community with other people, learning from what others write on my blog. It also fun to work out how blogging works technically, learn some htlm-code, try out different blog designs, etc.
14. Do you think you can get to know a person by reading his/her blog?
Definitely, especially if they are personal, even if they are anomymous but still personal. There are several bloggers who I would really like to meet because I think they seem like genuinely nice, fun and interesting people.
15. Have you met people IRL (in real life) after having made contact with them through the blog?
No, not yet but I would love to meet some of my regular bloggers.
16. Do you think it can be bad for certain persons to blog?
No, not so long as there are others things in your life too (my boyfriend thinks I spend too much time blogging, reading different blogs, Facebooking, etc. but on average it's only 1 hour a day probably so I don't think I need to worry). Some people with certain jobs or who are public persons should perhaps be a bit careful with what they write and how personal they are but in general I think blogging is a positive phenomenon.
17. Have you ever been hurt by anything that has been written to you/about you in the comments or in other blogs? If so, how have you dealt with it?
Not that I can remember. There have been differences of opinion but the discussion has never got out of the way. I know some people that have receive anonymous e-mails about something they have blogged about but it has never happened to me.
18. Have you written things you have regretted in your own or other people's blogs?
I don't think so, I hope not.
19. What are the disadvantages of blogging for you?
As I mentioned above, it's time-consuming and a little bit addictive (you don't want to let down your readers by not blogging regularly ;) but it's so much fun and rewarding so I think it's still on the plus account for me.
20. Do you think that you are still blogging in two years' time? If so, do you think your blogging will have changed?
Definitely! And why change a winning concept! ;)
21. Do you think bloggers have (or will have) some influence on our culture, or are they a group of people that mostly influence each other?
Both!
22. Finally, can you summarise what your blogging has meant to you?
A new hobby, a new channel for knowledge (i.e. for myself in new sources of info, opinions and knowledge) and a new group of friends.
23. Name 5 bloggers you think should answer the questionnaire?
I extend the invitation to all the blogs on my blog roll!
Friday, May 02, 2008
Show & Tell: Colourful
2 May: Colourful
9 May: Breakfast
16 May: Coolness, refreshing (weather and temperature)
23 May: Shoes (YES! says the shoe fetishist!)
30 May: Books
Since Désirée said to be very creative with today's theme I thought I'd just blog about something colourful that I remember from my childhood. Not brightly coloured perhaps but a specific colour scheme, albeit a pale one.
It's a jigsaw puzzle that was a big favourite of mine, especially when I was sick and had to stay home from school. I used to play with it at an age where I was way too old for it (as a teenager), but it was cute and a nice pastime when you were ill and bedstruck. I used to have a tray on my lap (a red one in wood) on which I practised my creative skills (though I could probably do that particular puzzle in my sleep).
Anyway, the puzzle was a set of three with different motifs portraying the life of a cat family. It was just a mother and her kittens I think; I guess fathers are not too present in the cat world :) I think there was one kitchen scene, one outdoors play picture and probably some sort of tucking in/nap scene though I could be mistaken.
The puzzle was - and this is where the colour theme comes in - pastel-coloured, a lot of baby pink and blue, although the cats were black I think. What I also liked about the puzzle was that the pieces were really thin and sort of rounded along the edges so theye were really soft to touch.
I hope the puzzle is still in my parents' attic somewhere - so I can take it out and see whether my memories are completely wrong and also, once I hade kids of my own, pass it onto them. (Maybe my mother who reads this blog and never comments *hint, hint* can confirm whether the puzzle is still around?! :)
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Show & Tell: Favourite Magazines
One of my first favourite magazines was Bamse.

I think the first issues I remember were from 1982 when I was 6 years old. I saved all editions for years but at some point in my late teens I threw them out. It's a pity because it would have been fun to have those 1982 ones still. I don't know if my grandmother gave me my very first subscription but it became a tradition that every year in December when it was my "name day" (9 December) she gave me a subscription for the coming year as a gift. I don't remember when I stopped getting them but presumably when I became a teenager. I still prefer Bamse over Donald Duck though. I think the stories in Donald are okay but I don't care much for the drawing.
At some point as a child and a teen I also subscribed to Kamratposten. It had interesting stories and took up all those subjects about your body and feelings that you didn't want to bring up with either friends or adults.
I was never a horse fan so I never subscribed to (and hardly read) "stables" magazines. As a teen I read a lot of teen and music magazines such as Frida and Okej.
Nowadays my favourite magazines are the Economist to feed my current affairs needs and Vanity Fair for a mix of everything including some interesting articles. I got a subscription for VF from Peter for Christmas and I have subscribed to the Economist in the past but at the moment I don't feel like I have the time to read it and they just grow into a big pile on the floor (at the moment I have a little pile of VFs that I haven't read...). So I buy it once in a while instead.
I also read King when Peter buys it (he stopped his subscription for a while), which is a men's magazine but I find it much better than the equivalent women's magazines. Maybe because it's a bit more "exotic" or the abundance of useless fashion ads in the women's magazines.
Lastly I enjoy reading design and interior decorating magazines - I like those much better than women's mags actually. I also like gossip magazines but I hardly ever buy them; I read them for free and cafés or the hairdresser's instead. And I also get my gossip from Just Jared :)
Sunday, April 20, 2008
A Party Well Thrown
- We only had two late cancellations
- Everything was ready in time for the first guests to arrive
- There were some really entertaining, spot-on speeches
- Most people had seconds of the catered food but there were still plenty of leftovers for us to live on for a few days
- There were still 20 people left at 3am
- The dance floor was rocking all night
- Only one out of 54 attendees turned annoying and drunk
- We only broke a total of two glasses
- The cleaning the day after went smoothly, thanks to regular clearing up throughout the night
Less successful
- Why did we book the laundry room for 5-8pm on Sunday?
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Passing Time
What I did...
15 years ago (1993):
1. I was in my first year of upper secondary school
2. I went to Estonia with a church youth group (or was it 1994...?)
3. I listened to "I Will Always Love You" a lot
10 years ago (1998):
1. I moved to London to study
2. I spent the summer in Darien, Connecticut, as an aupair with the extended family of my original American aupair family (I was an aupair in 1995/06)
3. I met a lot of new friends in the UK, both English and of other nationality
5 years ago (2003):
1. I spent 5 months as an intern with the European Commission (well, technically 3 months was in 2002 and 2 months in 2003)
2. I had a really fun summer working for the Swedish pro-euro campaign, even if we lost the referendum :(
3. I started my first proper job at a consultancy working with EU research funding, among other things
3 years ago (2005):
1. I went on my first ever charter trip. It went to Marmaris, Turkey, and I brought an old childhood friend.
2. I left the consultancy (well, technically on 6 January 2006) for greener pastures
3. I visited my friend Helena in Toronto where she was spending 6 months with her now husband and daughter
1 year ago (2007):
1. I did a LOT of travelling: Hong Kong, Malta and South Africa were the highlights, but I also went to London and Barcelona
2. My friend Anoushka got married
3. I moved in with Peter
3 months ago (January 2008):
1. I looked at all our photos from South Africa
2. I celebrated my birthday
3. I worked a lot!
Yesterday (16 April 2007):
1. I celebrated Peter's 30th birthday by taking the day off
2. I went for spa treatment and a nice lunch with Peter
3. I bought half of Systembolaget's stock of alcohol for the party on Saturday
Today (17 April 2008):
1. I went to a chocolate tasting at work at lunch time
2. I received Åsa & Rikard's wedding invitation
3. I listened to Peter compiling music lists for Saturday's party
Tomorrow (18 April 2008)
1. I'm hopefully going out for lunch with some colleague(s)
2. I'm going to the supermarket for the final stuff for Saturday's party
3. I'm making a nice pasta sauce from ingredients in the fridge that will otherwise go bad
In 1 year (April 2009):
1. A friend of mine who's trying for a baby has succeeded
2. I'm planning my wedding (I hope!)
3. I have changed jobs
Monday, April 14, 2008
Grocery Shopping Extraordinaire
Folded up in the back corner was a forgotten piece of paper, the kind of thing I usually disregard. This paper caught my eye, though, the words on it not written in your usual list style–item by item, vertically–but horizontally, and grouped closely together. At first glance, it looked like a note or a letter instead of a shopping list, and curiosity got the better of me so I unfolded and read it. Alas, closer scrutiny revealed it to be a grocery list after all, and I commented to Olof, a little disappointed and put-out, 'That’s a strange way to wrive a grocery list.'.
The story continues...
It reminded me of the book "Dice Man" by Luke Rhinehart where the main character lets the dice decide everything in his life. I once saw a documentary about it - apparently the book/guy even had a following for a while.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Not My Favourite Flower
I am a |
"You have a shy personality. You tend to hesitate before trying new things or meeting new people. But once people get to know you, you open up and show the world what you are really all about."
I'm not shy at all and I'm a very social being who likes meeting new people! And I'm usually up for trying new things! New food, new music, fun activities (maybe not bungy jumping but other fun things) or what have you.
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Anna by the Letter
A - Anna (this was a given)
B - Blog fan (another given)
C - maybe a Coyet one day...
D - work as a Desk officer
E - at an Embassy
F - huge fan of Friends; I need to get in Feminist here too
G - despite paying a lot for the Gym every month I hardly go...
H - hate Horror films
I - love Indian food although I have never really felt like going to India
J - one of my first talents were solving Jigsaw puzzles and I still enjoy them, though with a few more pieces
K - had a cat called Kitty
L - can be quite Lazy sometimes, especially Saturday and Sunday mornings, and doing chores in general
M - was pretty good at Maths in school and according to a career test I took last year I should work with something mathematical...
N - addicted to the News and reading Newspapers
O - Organised, especially at work, maybe less so when it comes to my home
P - the man of my life is Peter
Q - like the word "Queue" in the English language, sounds so much better than "line"
R - Read too few books at the moment
S - Social democrat at heart
T - look forward to spending a long weekend in Tuscany in June with Peter and my parents...
U - and a US spending spree in August (NYC, New England and DC)
V - not as Vain as my boyfriend ;)
W - one of my Wishes at the moment is to get a job for the European Commission
X - don't like reality television like the X-factor or Big Brother or Top Model
Y - 30+ but still young!
Z - zzz, I don't sleep as much as I want
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Mobile Flightmare
The newspaper Svenska dagbladet reports that reactions to the news among passengers at Stockholm Bromma Airport were somewhat mixed, with several worrying about disturbance onboard. Some believed that a number of airlines will use peace and quiet onboard as a marketing tool - for those who regard one of the virtues of air travel as being the haven it provides from being reached or hearing other people being reached - while others will target passengers with the offer of mobile phone use.
Hopefully it will only be a short period of free mobile use before airlines - and passengers - come to their senses! The future probably - hopefully - holds mobile phone booths or small compartments for those who cannot stand being disconnected for a few hours instead.
* On certain flights under new European Commission rules, provided the airlines have the necessary technical equipment. The plan is to install small base stations into the cockpits of the planes. Calls made via the station will be routed to terrestrial networks via satellite link. However, according to the decision, flight captains will have the power to switch off the service if they feel it necessary.
Monday, April 07, 2008
Healthcare or Sick Care?
Helena has a personal story to tell - you can read it here. In brief, she has moved back and forth between Stockholm, London and Brussels over the last five years, which has caused some difficulties for the Swedish health service, mainly as a result of the procedures in place for GP appointments, referrals for tests, waiting times, IT systems and ultimately, her living abroad. Even though she had a letter from her doctor in London stating that she needed to have a certain test taken, the Swedish health service could not set up an appointment unless she went through the normal routes within the Swedish healthcare system (details on her blog).
Her point with the post is to:
ask the question how the Swedish health service manages increased internationalisation? If they could not manage my needs, despite me being registered in Sweden, because I had taken a test in another country, how would they then meet the needs of persons who live in Sweden temporarily, persons who have just moved to Sweden, or person who do not speak Swedish?
The need of the patient must always be more important than the system. If something does not fit into the system there must exist a culture within the health service that encourages flexibility and initiative. But all too often governance through quantitative evaluation and budget goals makes it more profitable for divisions and units to stand on the side of the system when it collides with the needs of the patient.
Thus I cringe when I hear Swedish politicians saying that EU initiatives in the healthcare sector threatens the Swedish healthcare system. Defence of systems and models is seldom a very good political starting-point.
What I would add is that - which probably Helena would agree with as well - is not that we want the EU to start deciding the financing or the content of the healthcare provision, but to facilitate for patients in an increasingly global world.
Saturday, April 05, 2008
Show & Tell: Spring Flowers
Wednesday, April 02, 2008
My Home - Best and Worst
B E S T
Must be our wallpaper in the bedroom (a "fondvägg", in our case on the wall behind the bed). We put it up a year or so ago and we still love it! It's an English make called Osborne & Little if anyone is tempted!
Another thing on the "best" list is the balcony - this picture is from Peter's birthday in mid-April last year when we had our friends Maria and Daniel over for dinner and it was such a warm evening that we could eat outside.
W O R S T
Difficult to photograph, but the worst thing is definitely the cigarette smoke that sometimes seeps through from our nextdoor neighbours. What's weird is that you cannot smell it through their door (believe me, I have tried!), instead it only smells in the kitchen (which is next to their kitchen) and it's worst around 6pm and 11pm and INSIDE the cabinets! They must be keeping all their cigarette butts under the sink or something.
Any advice on what to do? Both how to get rid of the smell and how to bring this up with nextdoor (as they are probably not going to read this)?
Passing on the challenge to Skolfröken, Johanna and Anna!
Monday, March 31, 2008
Södertälyeah!*
The world looks toward Södertälje - that has been the gist of many articles in foreign media in recent weeks. Södertälje is my hometown and the place I spent 19 years of my life, so naturally I take an interest in what is written about this medium-sized town (semi-suburb) southwest of Stockholm.
The last few months Södertälje has been invaded by international journalists because the town receives more Iraqi immigrants than the whole of North America put together. Södertälje welcomed 1,268 refugees last year of which 95% were from Iraq, a figure that is expecting to rise to 2,400 this year. Here it is appropriate to mention that Sweden took in over 9,000 Iraqi asylym-seekers, or almost 50% of all Iraqis coming to Europe. The USA in comparison took 202.
The reporters are coming to Södertalje to see how the process of integration is going and how they can learn from the successes and problems of the whole experience. So far, correspondents from the BBC, the New York Times and Le Monde have reported from the city and this week, the Washington Post is to publish a major report. There is much surprise amongst foreign correspondents as to how a city the size of Södertalje can cope with the influx. There are of course many problems such as the shortage of pre-school and childcare facilities and other infrastructure.
Anders Lago, the mayor of Södertälje (whom I interviewed for once) is actually going to Washington DC on 9 April to speak in front of the US Congress on the matter. The hearing is for the Commission on Security and Co-Operation in Europe. Lago has been asked to account for the strategies Södertälje uses to meet the challenges associated with Iraqi refugees.
Before this latest celebrity factor, Södertälje was mostly famous for the two multinational companies Scania and Astra Zeneca and the tennis player Björn Borg (who happened to have gone to my old school, not at the same time though). For a longer history of Södertälje, read here, and for more info on the international character of the town, here.
Some links
SÖDERTÄLJE SPECIFIC
BBC news
NYTimes January 2008
SWEDEN GENERAL
International Herald Tribune March 2008
Washington Post March 2008
International Herald Tribune March 2008
Le Monde March 2008
NYTimes September 2007
NYTimes June 2007
NYTimes January 2007
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Saturday, March 29, 2008
Show & Tell: Big and Small
My favourite of all the animals we saw on safari (or game drives, as they say in South Africa) is the elephant. Such a magnifient creature. You can't probably tell from these pictures but they were as big as the jeep we travelled in. In the last picture the elephant got really close to the car, maybe 7 metres away, before it "obeyed" our guide's warning shouts and moved away (while we were sitting quiet without moving, a bit scared and very excited at the same time).
In the first two photos I hope you can spot the little newborn elephant to the right in the picture. It's the tiny one that's crossing the railtracks with his mum and other family members. That one was around 3 hours old according to our guide. They can walk already at that "age", albeit a bit wobbly. When it stopped right on the tracks all the other elephants stopped too and didn't move again until they had got the little one to move forwards again. When elephants have newborns they are really protective (you would be too if you had carried it in your womb for 22 months) and would rather risk being hit by a train than leaving the baby behind. Since they - the females that is, the male are the ones we encountered solo in the bush - are so protective, we did not want to get any closer at the railtracks.
You have probably spotted another baby at the front of the the herd - that one was a couple of weeks or months old, can't remember exactly. But still a baby.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Waffled
Back when Annunciation used to be a holiday it was called "vårfrudagen" after "vår fru" (our madame/wife/Mrs) instead of "jungfru" (virgin) Mary. Over time Vårfrudagen has become "våffeldagen" (the waffle day), which has given rise to the customs to eat waffles on this day.
The plan today was to make savoury-style waffles for dinner followed by some sweet ones for dessert. But when the ingredients had already been purchased and I was almost home I remembered that we threw out my (inherited, bright orange, 1970s) waffle iron few months ago...
(Photo: Tasteline)Oh well. Luckily we had lots of sauce left from last night's Thai take-away so I just threw in some new chicken (quorn actually) and some vegetables and put the rice cooker on, and voila, dinner was ready.
I still want those waffles with spinach, avocaco and bacon some day soon though.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Friday, March 21, 2008
Instead of Show & Tell
English summary: you probably read more than almost everybody in the world. Surprisingly you have a long way to go before you become a real "book geek". Does it make you disappointed? Dr Geek prescribes one week at a book camp, purchase of at least one pair of reading glasses and a literary guided tour a month.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Global Talk with Miliband
At the upper secondary school he discussed globalisation and climate change with pupils in year 2 (17-year-olds). The whole event was webcasted and you can hear both Miliband's short introductory speech and the Q&A session between him and the students. (If you look carefully you might spot me at the back of the room towards the door!)
In his speech Miliband said that globalisation has benefited - especially countries such as Sweden and the UK - substantially. Trade has made us richer, cultural exchange has given us a much more dynamic society, and co-operation with other states makes our countries stronger and more influential.
But it has also brought a new type of uncertainty within both the economy and politics that forces states to act in a new way. Issues that belonged to domestic politics have now become "foreign policy". Environmental issues reflects this phenomenon very well. Earlier the problems were local, e.g. the smog in London caused by industrialisation. Today there are global problems that must be solved with global solutions. The environment is a very important issue also on the agenda of foreign ministers.
Miliband said - and this is one of the most interesting points - that climate change is not just or mainly an environmental problem. Environmental problems is a symptom while the problems are those of conflicts (over resources) and forced migration. These are issues that have consequences for other countries since large groups are forced to migrate. In that way climate change is strongly linked to both economic issues and foreign policy.
Another interesting point Miliband made is that it is important to see that the solutions (i.e. reducing carbon emissions) are not strictly technical. It is about ethics and values. The technology exists but the problem is who should pay, who should bear the burden.
Also, if you take it down to the individual level, Miliband said that we all have an individual responsibility to reduce our personal carbon footprint. But governments have to make it easy for people to raise their awareness and change their behaviour, for example by regulating against fossil-high cars and low-efficient lightbulbs.
I will post the link to the Fryshuset event once it is up.
Friday, March 14, 2008
Show & Tell: Change
- Climate Change - the change happening and the change we need to make
- Gender equality and the change achieved and the lack of change
I have chosen the second topic this time around. It would have probably been the perfect post for last Saturday, which was International Women's Day, but six days late isn't too bad!
8 VOICES ON GENDER EQUALITY IN SWEDEN
First, some thoughts from Swedish personalities on the best and worst with being a woman in Sweden today*.
Jan Guillou, author:
- The best is that we live in the world's most gender equal country. The worst is that the gender equality has not come very far. (It's all relative.)
Katrine Kielos, temp. Editor-in-Chief, Dagens Arena, columnist
- That we live the world's most gender equal country according to the Global Gender Gap Report 2007. At the same time the worst thing is that Sweden is not gender equal, just least unequal according to the same report.
Pär Ström, integrity and gender equality debater, author of the book "Mansförtryck and kvinnovälde" (Oppression of men and female empire):
- The best with being a woman is that there is great understanding and great interest in society for women's problems and difficulties. The worst is that Sweden to an unusual high degree has typical female and male professions. This has to do with people's free choice, but a consequence is that it is more difficult for the average women to have a career.
Anitra Steen, CEO Systembolaget [state monopoly alcohol stores]:
- The absolute best thing is that there is an infrastructure that makes it possible to have children and at the same time develop your career and yourself. That there are childcare, parental leave allowance and other tools helping one to manage family life in parallel with a career. I don't want to point out the worst things; I think that the most dangerous a woman can do is to see herself as a victim, then I rather see the advantages.
Thomas Bodström, Chair of Parliament Justice Committee:
- The best is that we probably live in the most gender equal country. The worst is that women are being abused and sexually assaulted in Sweden today.
Ebba Witt-Brattström, Professor in Literature, feminist
- That we have a global task to before the world's women show that it is possible to achieve our relatively high degree of gender equality, and at the same time combat the increasing contempt for women within and outside the country. The worst is that we right now have a meaningless debate about feminism directed by the media and with little relevance to women's reality.
Tobias Billström, Minister for Migration
- We live in one of the world's most gender equal countries. But there are still informal barriers, for example that womens labour market is so limited to the public sector.
Dilsa Demirbag-Sten, journalist and author
- The best is that me and my male fellow beings are equal before the law. That I live in a country where the state is obliged to protect me from oppression on the basis of religion, opinion, gender or sexual orientation. The worst is cultural relativism, that women are still oppressed in the name of culture and religion.
A FEMINIST GOVERNMENT VOICE
Second, some thoughts from the Swedish Finance Minister Anders Borg**. I didn't vote for them and I don't agree with most of the stuff they are doing, but Borg is one of the most sensible members of the Cabinet and he's not afraid of calling himself a feminist.
Why do you call yourself a feminist?
- Because I think it is one of our time's greatest restriction on freedom that men and women are limited by gender roles, that say what they should do and shouldn't do. Freedom is about shaping your own life, and the fact that gender roles endure is one of the greatest barriers.
It has been a bit taboo to call oneself a feminist in your party [Moderates/Conservatives], why is that?
- Historically it's been like that, but I think the attitude has changed a lot. Young people want to have the right to shape their own lives and young fathers want to be part of family life. If you want to live a good life you must take responsibility for your children and then you cannot let gender roles hinder that.
The lack of gender equality is one of Sweden's and Europe's biggest problem. When did you have your feminist awakening?
- I have worked with gender equality issues for a long time, but it becomes more concrete when you have children. More practice and less theory.
What can you as Finance Minister do to reduce the gaps between women and men?
- At the moment there is a positive development, women's salaries are increasing and women work more so that their incomes are growing. The one with the power over the money has great influence over the family; if women earn 40% less than men it has consequences. I work for getting women into the labour market, and making it easier for them when they are there.
What development has been most important during the 2000s from a feminist perspective?
- I think that the gender equality work has stood still. The positive exception is that I think I'm seeing that young men are more active as parents. When I took parental leave for the first time people laughed and said "now he's going on vacation". But the next time I saw a change in attitudes.
What is the most important feminist issue for you right now?
- The gender equality bonus. When a couple share the parental leave, and the lowest earner go back to work and the highest earner stay at home, they get 3,000 SEK in tax reductions each month.
What is required from the feminists of the future?
- You have to make yourself aware and discuss these issues with others. You have a personal responsibility.
* Source: Svenska Dagbladet 8 March 2008
* Interview in Dagens nyheter 2 March 2008


