P.S. If I don't have time to blog on Wednesday this will double as this week's Recipe!
News and commentary on the life of the person behind this blog and on events in Sweden and around the world. Personal anecdotes, OP-Eds, reading suggestions, etc. Enjoy, and comment!
Monday, June 29, 2009
Swedish Breakfast
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Friday, June 19, 2009
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
US Road Trip Part 5: New Hampshire and Maine
Peter in the cute town of Camden
Camden waterfront
This little puppy was so cute trying to get to the ducks!
Posing in Camden Marina
Belted Galloways at Aldermere Farm in Rockport, Maine - they look pretty cool!
Bar Harbor in the north of Maine
Beautiful bridge in Penobscot Bay (still Maine)
And today's Wednesday Recipe!
Morning fog in Belfast, Maine. We stayed at Penobscot Bay Inn - nothing fancy but good value accommodation.
Peter at Pemaquid Point
Same place
Bird at Pemaquid Point
And lastly, Kennebunks Beach, the town in the south of Maine where the Bush family has their vacation home
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Show & Tell: Six-Month Check-Up
First, the inventory:
20090111 - Tractor tire tracks at the country house (the crazy neighbour has built a new house and the whole place is a mess, and in addition the workers have cut through parts of Peter's family's lawn - so this is the folder with the evidence!)
20090128 - Anna's birthday dinner (two lonely photos...it was in the middle of the week and just the two of us)
20090214 - Passion fruit soufflé (Peter made a semi-successful attempt at making soufflé. Apparently passion fruit is a tricky sufflé ingredient.)
20090309 - Fuerteventura (our "getting rid of our winter white skin"-trip to the Canaries)
20090327 - Tallinn (my weekend cruise to Estonia with my friend Malin)
20090404 - Kangaroo (our first try of this particular kind of meat, grilled on the Weber on the balcony)
20090409 - Åre (Peter's ski trip to Åre with some friends over Easter)
20090410 - Easter and spring (some photos from Easter and the rest of April, mostly flowers and other nature shots)
20090430 - Walpurgis Eve party (our well-attended and fun - so the guests said - party on Valborg)
20090506 - Tallinn with work (another trip to Tallinn, this time for work)
20091517 - Daniel Hilton (first meeting with my friends' newborn son)
2090521 - Norway and Kalle & Anlaug's wedding (our latest trip and chance to see some friends we had not seen for years!)
So how does this year compare to the same time last year? Well, 12 albums so far this year compared to 19 last year. So we have evidently not been as busy with the camera this year, or perhaps travelled less?
But let me show you some favourites from (a selection of) the above listed albums !
I like this photo because I really like my outfit with the red skirt and the black top, and because my friend M. was able to come to the party despite being ill for so long (which she still is, but hopefully she will get well soon!) (April)
This was a fun theme! We should do it every six months!
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Wednesday Recipe: Salmon & Crayfish Quiche
Salmon & Crayfish Quiche
4-6 servings
Crust
2½ dl flour
75 g butter or margarin
3/4 dl Kesella (kvarg, curd) (or another 50 g butter if you can't find curd)
Filling
100-150 g smoked salmon
200 gr crayfish tails
2 dl Västerbotten cheese (or other mature and tasty hard cheese)
3 eggs
2 dl milk
salt and pepper
What to do
1. Turn the oven to 225'C. Make the dough for the crust and "dress" a 28 cm quiche pan.
2. Pre-bake the crust for 10-12 minutes until it gets some colour. Lower the heat to 200'C.
3. Slice up the salmon and rinse the crayfish. Grate the cheese.
4. Whip eggs and milk and add some salt and pepper.
5. Fill the crust with salmon, crayfish and cheese. Save some for decoration if you want. Finish with the egg and milk mix.
6. Bake for 20-25 minutes
7. Serve with a fresh salad.
Smaklig måltid! I had the leftovers for lunch today and it tasted even better, which is often the case with quiche!
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Monday, June 08, 2009
When Do They Work?
Apparently French people spend the most time sleeping and eating, and because of it (?) they live longer. The French gets an average of 9 hours of beauty sleep per day while the Japanese and Korean (okay, I guess this study was wider than just Europe...) sleep only seven hours and 50 minutes per day. One hour difference may not sound that much but if you think about the difference in a given week (63 compared to 56) or in a given month (252 vs 224), you will feel pretty sorry for the Asians in questions!
According to the study the French also spend more time on cooking and eating that anyone else and nearly double that of Americans (no surprise there; it's the fast-food nation after all) and Canadians. The Japanese may not sleep but they spend almost as much time on eating as the French - two hours daily at the table. Italians and Belgians are also pretty good at taking their time at the table. The Swedes are in the middle of the league table with an hour and half a day eating.
The French and the Japanese live as long though - 84.4 and 86 respectively for women - so life expectancy must be about more than just sleeping and eating since they scored quite different results, at least when it comes to sleep. And apparently the Spaniards live long too - 84.4 for wome - even though they didn't come out on top on any of the indicators.
The survey also revealed some not so surprising gender differences. In Italy men have around 80 minutes more a day of leisure time than women. Sad. 80 minutes is quite a lot! Stark contrast to Norway where men and women have the same amount of spare time.
But I wonder, with all that sleeping and eating, when to the French work??
Friday, June 05, 2009
Show & Tell: Blue and Yellow
Blue and yellow - and purple, green and red - are the colours of an abused woman.
Before I continue I should point out that I'm not myself a beaten woman (if I were I would probably not write about it to start with) but fighting domestic violence, or violence against women in general, is a cause I support. I have a friend who's been working with women's rights and domestic violence for a long time - she's now heading a project called Centre for Relationship Violence in Stockholm - and I have followed some of the developments in terms of policy and legislation for work.
According to the UN definition (1993 declaration), violence against women is:
- - Violence targeted at women on the basis of sex/gender
- - Violence that cause or can cause physical or mental suffering or bodily harm
- - Violence that mean threat, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of freedom
- - Violence against women refers to abuse, rape or sexual exploitation
- - Mental violence refers to sexual harassment or sexual humiliation at workplaces or in schools, in media, press and advertising
- - Violence against women is a breach of human rights
Violence against women occurs everywhere around us. Amnesty illustrates this by shrinking the world to a village with 1,000 inhabitants and providing some frightening and sad statistics:
- - 500 are women; it would be 510 but 10 were never born due to sex-related abortion or died as infants due to neglect
- - 300 are Asian women
- - 105 are illiterate
- - 145 live on less than a dollar a day
- - 167 are being beaten or in some other way exposed to violence during their lifetime
- - 100 will be raped or experience an attempted rape during their lifetime
More about domestic violence (source: Amnesty):
- - At least one out of three women or as many as a billion women in total have been abused or forced to have sex during their lifetime. Often the perpetrator is a family member or someone she knows.
- - Approx. 70% of female murder victims are killed by their male partner
- - It is estimated that in Kenya more than one woman a week is killed by their male partner; in Zambia it is five women a week by a male partner or family member.
- - 35% of Egyptian women are abused by their husband at least once during the marriage
- - In Bolivia 17% of women over 20 have been subject to physical violence in the last year
- - In Bangladesh all murdered women have been killed by their partner
- - In Pakistan 42% of women are said to accept violence as part of their fate and 33% feel too helpless to put up any resistance. 19% say that they have protested and 4% that they have acted in some way.
- - In Canada the costs for violence against women have been estimated to be 1.6 billion dollar per year including medical care and decline in production
- - In the USA a woman is abused every 15th second, often by her partner
- - In New Zealand 20% of women are beaten or mentally abused
- - In Russia 36,000 women are abused on a daily basis by their men or partners
- - In Spain one woman is killed every five days by her male partner
- - In the UK two women a week die at the hands of their male partners.
There is also specific sexual violence (still Amnesty figures):
- - One of five women in the world will be subject to rape or attempted rape during their lifetime
- - In South Africa on average 147 women are raped day
- - Rape occurs every 90th second in the USA
- - In France 25,000 women are raped every year
- - In Turkey 35.6% of women have been subject to violence within marriage, 16.3% say that it has happened on several occasions
More statistics, e.g. for violence against women in wartime and harmful practices such as female genital mutilation, are available on Amnesty's page.
So what do states do about it?
In many countries it is not even considered a crime; cases of violence are often not even investigated or punished. Some facts:
- - In 2003 at least 54 countries had laws that discriminated against women in some way (based on a report from the UN rapporteur on violence against women).
- - 79 countries have no or unknown legislation against violence in the home
- - Rape within marriage is recognised as a specific crime in only 52 countries (read for example about new, depressing legislation allowing this in Afghanistan here)
- - Only 16 countries have legislation that include specific references to sexual assault
- - Only three countries have legislation that specifically headline violence against women as a criminal category in itself (Bangladesh, Sweden and the USA)
- - In Bolivia, Cameroon, Costa Rica, Ethiopia, Lebanon, Peru, Romania, Uruguay and Venezuela a rapist will not be punished if he asks the victim to marry him and she accepts
- - The concept "honour" as extenuating circumstances (partly or fully) exists in penalty codes in Peru, Bangladesh, Argentina, Ecuador, Egypt, Guatemala, Iran, Israel, Jordan, Syria, Lebanon, Turkey, the West Bank and Venezuela.
What about Sweden then?
According to the Swedish National Council for Crime Prevention, reported case of abuse against women are increasing (up 34% in the last decade) - both because more and more women go to the police and because there is more violence. Some facts and figures:
- - In 73% of the cases the woman knew the culprit (2007)
- - The share of attacks (where the victim does not know the perpretator and it happens outdoors for example) has decreased with 12% (2006) and in 17% of cases of rape there is no close relationship
- - In 2006 the prosecutor gave a restraining order in 4,294 cases
- - There were 2,500 reports of abuse in 2007
- - In 2007 5,850 persons were suspects in connection to abuse against women. In the majority of the cases (around 4,750) the woman and the man knew each other. In 85% of those cases the suspect was a man (compared to 64% men where they don't know each other).
- - 21% of all cases were settled (solved) (23% for known perpretator and 15% for unknown)
- - According to estimates only 20-25% of violence against women in close relationship are ever reported to the police
We should also remember that not just women are victims of domestic violence, also children, both directly and indirectly. Save the Children/Rädda Barnen has done several excellent commercials about this:
I also believe that prostitution is a form of violence against women. I don't agree with those who say that "it is the world's oldest trade bla bla..." or that "they have chosen to do this bla bla...". I recently read a disturbing article about the "business prospects" for prostitutes in Copenhagen in connection with the climate conferences taking place there this year (one climate and business conference a couple of weeks ago and of course the big international climate conference in December). At the recent conference one prostitute said she had "a crazy rush" for business; "the politicians also need to relax after a long day"... Denmark has not criminalised sex-buyers (NB! not selling but buying, based on the assumptions that the prostitutes themselves are victims rather than criminals) like Sweden (1999), Norway (2008), Finland (pending) and Iceland (2009) and does not seem to be heading that way anytime soon.
Finally I just want to say that I'm not saying that all men are like this! I happen to have a wonderful man in my life and I know most of you out there do too. Violence against women in something that men and women have to fight together! It's a cause we should all support. I also want to say that I'm aware of the fact that there are women who abuse men, and violence in same-sex couples - this is for example why my friend's project talks about violence in relationships rather than just violence against women. That said, most of their clients are women who have been abused by men.Questions for Europe
Thursday, June 04, 2009
Time for a List
1. How many suitcases do you own?
Five, one of which is cabin size
2. Would you rather take the picture than being in the picture?
No, I like taking pictures but I'm also very photogenic, or so they say!
3. Has anyone ever called you lazy?
Peter, all the time. He thinks I just sit there with my computer when I should be cleaning the flat or something :)
4. When did someone last come onto you?
It must be a few weeks ago when the guy who works at my local 7Eleven was trying to weave in "gift" (married) into the conversation, evidently trying to find out if I were married or whether I was up for tying the know with him or something (I was just bying a tea so it was not a straight-forward conversation).
5. What did you eat for dinner?
Some Thai food with chicken, potatoes, pineapple and peanuts
6. Do you use hooded sweaters?
Not very often but I have two I think
7. Who called you last?
Helena, just before we left work, to ask when we were leaving for the cinema (we saw "Duplicity")
8.What is your favourite ride at an amusement park?
The octopus at Gröna Lund or a rollercoaster, but an old-fashioned one, not these crazy "almost-kill-you" rides they have in the US or the UK
9. How big is your nearest shopping centre?
Fältöversten probably has about 40 shops plus supermarket, shoe repairer, etc.
10. How many siblings do you have?
One brother
11. How many chairs do you have at your kitchen table?
Six. The kitchen table doubles as dining room table.
12. Do you have a desktop or laptop?
Laptop(s)
13. Do you want to get a tatoo or piercing right now?
No, I hate tatoos! And I have pierced all body parts I want to pierce, i.e. my ears!
14. What do you bring when you go to the cinema?
Company, popcorn and a drink, or sweets
15. Do you like to fly?
Prefer afterwards, when I have arrived, but I'm not that scared. But I liked flying more when I was younger.
16. Do you care about the calory count in what you buy?
Not to the extent that I read on each package but I try to avoid some things I know have a lot of calories.
17. How old will you be next time?
34, but that's not until next year fortunately!
18. Do you like to hug people?
Of course!
19. Do you have any allergies?
Maybe some slight allergy in the spring, but hardly. Grass sometimes gives me a rash.
20. Do you like your living quarters?
Yes, a lot! But I'm still dreaming about a new place; something new to decorate, a garden and a walk-in closet à la the Heineken commercial - both for clothes and beer!
P.S. Can't remember where I found the list so can't give credit where it's due!
Wednesday, June 03, 2009
Show & Tell: Inspiration from US Road Trip Part 4 - Cape Cod
Posing in Newport
One of many Newport mansions
Our B&B Acworth Inn in Cummaquid, Mass. on the Old King's Highway - Highly recommended! Beautiful house, super friendly innkeeper and delicious breakfasts!
Our romance style room at the B&B. It was actually cuter and less flowery than it looks like in the picture. Not all four walls had the floral wallpaper.
Cute fire station in Yarmouth along the Old King's Highway
Boats in Nauset Beach
We saw all kinds of creatures as it was low tide
One of my favourite shots from New England!
Peter posing in the beachgoers' part of the beach (the parts shown above are more for fishing) but it was quite early still so people hadn't started arriving (the weather wasn't the best either).
Another favourite
Mussel picker
More Nauset Beach views
When in New England you have to eat a lobster roll with chips* (or fries as they are called in the States)! This is at Moby Dick's in Wellfleet.
Provincetown at the very top of the Cape. Provincetown is sometimes called P-town and is known for its beaches, harbour, artists, tourist industry, and its reputation as a gay village.
This is the very spot the pilgrims arrived to. The first English settlers founded the town in 1727 but they first arrived already in 1620 (you know, on the Mayflower) when they settled down across the bay in Plymouth (we visited there later on our journey).
Provincetown main street
Cape Cod style house but with some colour added. Its characteristics are wooden shutters and clapboard or shingle exterior.
Provincetown beach
Peter posing in P-town
I liked this little overgrown boat
Time for a pre-dinner walk in Chatham Beach. In Chatham we had dinner at the Impudent Oyster where we had some of the best fish we have ever had - I had tuna and Peter swordfish I think. Delicious!
Sandwich beach - our last stop in Cape Cod
Peter on Sandwich Beach