Long Time No See!

A lot has happened since I last wrote three months ago. Will take it in bullets. It's Thursday after all!

• In May our dear friends Maria and Daniel visited for a short weekend to celebrate Daniel's 40th birthday. Of course that required proper celebration at a two-star restaurant! Thanks P & O for babysitting!

Cheese!

• Later in May we flew back to Sweden for a long weekend to celebrate my mother's 60th birthday (and my parents also celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary). The weather was perfect, sunny and 28 degrees! My mother was very happy for her gift from me - a visit to Chelsea Flower Show next year (that reminds me, should probably book the tickets already now), something she has wanted to do for a very long time! My mum is also, despite her age (ha ha, though these days 60 is still very young) finally getting a driving license, so she's busy studying theory and taking lessons. Good for her!

• A few days after Sweden we packed up the car (you can never travel light with kids!) and drove to Münich together with our friendbours P & O to visit O's brother and wife over the Ascension Day weekend. On the way there we stopped in Frankfurt (partly because we left after work on the Wednesday and partly to split the long drive - 7+ hours - for the sake of the kids) to spend the night, but on Sunday we drove home in one go. We were a bit unlucky with the weather but otherwise I really liked Münich and we had a very nice time. Unfortunately Isolde caught a fever so on Saturday she and I spent the afternoon in the hotel as well as in a local playground while the rest of the group continued their sightseeing (this meant I sadly missed the visit to the Englischer Garten, but we'll probably be back some day).

I didn't take that many pictures with the iPhone but this is what Münich is all about, right :)

• The following weekend Peter went to Sweden again, this time for the wedding of a friend of his. We didn't feel like travelling with the children again for the third time in just two weeks, so he went by himself. Nice for him to get some child-free time as well. While he was in Sweden, the kids and I hung out with the neighbours - of course - and I packed a bit. Friday was 6 June and the Swedish National Day so P, T and I took the kids to the Swedish church for the celebrations in the evening. Sunday it was Princess Leonore's christening so we used the occasion to have a brunch with the friendbours, or at least the females of the families and the children, while the christening was on TV in the background. I also had the Monday off for Pentecoast and since Peter came back Sunday evening, we had a family day as well. 

Emily, Harald and Isolde at the National Day celebrations!

• The following week and weekend was the big move! I took half of Thursday and all of Friday off - work gives a leave entitlement for up to two days for removal purposes. Thursday afternoon we set out to Ikea with quite a long list - wardrobes for our bedroom, for Harald (Isolde had one already coming with the lorry from Sweden) and for the entrance/downstairs hallway, crib for Harald, bookcase for the kids' room, a double bed for the large/main guest room and other bits and pieces. The movers were supposed to arrive Friday with our furniture from the Stockholm flat, but they called and said that they were arriving early and asked whether it was possible to unload already Thursday afternoon. So they arrived around the time we returned from Ikea with lots of flatpacks (we used this excellent Ikea taxi service that only costs 30 euros irrespective of how much stuff you have and they help load and unload the van and there's no waiting time). We had reserved to block the street from other parked cars for the Friday to allow room for the lorry, but since it was Thursday still they had to just park in the road. Luckily it is not a very trafficated road so it worked out fine. We had booked a window lift - very exciting for the kids - for Friday afternoon to get some of the bulky furniture upstairs, as the staircase is a bit narrow, so we still made use of our cleared street part. On Sunday the "friendbours took the kids for most of the day so we could get some unpacking done and assemble Ikea furniture. After that it started to look like a home, or at least the start of one, and from that Sunday night (15 June) we slept in the house.  

Some order but mostly disorder!

Exciting!

• Isolde made her first school trip ever in mid-June. They went by bus to a horse farm near Leuven where they were able to ride and feed the horses, look at sheep and bake some bread (very tasty actually!). She had a really great time and asked several days in a row if she was going on an excursion that day again.  

Isolde's farm-baked bread
 

Isolde reenacts her school photo :)

• We had guests at the new house from the start. Even before we moved in Peter had assembled the grill and the trampoline so we were ready to receive guests, big and small! The first dinner was with P & O and kids and the first BBQ with our other neighbours T & M and another friend A with her boyfriend J, without the kids as we had organised a babysitter for the evening. We had meant to watch Belgium's first match in the World Cup on big screen in the local square but there were so many people that we decided to go home instead.

First BBQ at the house!

• The following weekend was Midsummer's and we had the celebrations at the house on the Saturday (Friday being a regular work day here) with 9 adults and 8 kids even though our house was in a bit of a state still. The weather was perfect and we were mostly outside anyway. We even had a proper Maypole and wreaths for the kids, thanks to T. There was so much food over so the next day almost the same crowd came over (minus 2 adults and 2 kids) for the leftovers and stayed all day. We didn't get much unpacking and organising done that weekend, but there would be time for that. Life is too short not to enjoy it fully with good friends!

• Peter managed to trip and fall on top of our glass table in the living room in the middle of our Midsummer fun, which broke in a thousand pieces, but luckily he wasn't injured except for some minor cuts (very fortunate, it could be much worse). It was funny in a tragicomical way because P, when seeing the table for the first time the day before, had asked "is that really safe with kids?" and Peter had responded "I've had this table for almost 18 years, several grown men have fallen on it, it's very sturdy..", etc. I guess the years and all those "bumps" had taken its toll and perhaps travelling 1,500 km in a lorry from Stockholm to Brussels was the final straw. Now we're on the lookout for a new table and possibly we're going for an almost exact table from Habitat (if we dare...).  

The table that no longer is...

• After that it was school's out for Isolde and we drove to Sweden on Friday 27 June. The trip went surprisingly well, much better than the trip to Münich a few weeks earlier. We started around 9 in the morning and took our time to Travemünde where we were going to take the ferry to Sweden. Actual driving time was just over 6 hours but we took two breaks and arrived in Lübeck around 6pm for dinner and a walk around. The ferry wasn't leaving until 22:00 and check-in was at 20:00 so we had plenty of time to kill. Once on the ferry the kids were able to play in the playroom for a while before bedtime. We had chosen one of the largest cabins so that we had proper beds (well, sort of, but at least avoid top bunks) and more space.

Great time in the ball pool!

• The ferry arrived to Trelleborg already at 07:30 so we had to set the alarm pretty early. We had some breakfast on the boat but saved some room for a second breakfast at an old school friend who lives in the Skåne countryside. So our first stop on the Swedish side was a visit to C. in little village Stora Beddinge for some just-out-of-the-oven scones and fresh coffee. Last time I saw C. was three years ago and before then...15 years?? It was very nice meeting her sambo and children and I'm very glad that we stopped by. Around 10am we headed north and only stopped once for lunch after almost 3½ hours as the kids slept for most of the first leg. After the lunch stop we only had another two hours or so before we reached my parents' house in Södertälje in time for dinner.  
• That weekend I had the chance to see Saltistjejen from New York who was in Sweden for the summer and meet the latest addition to the family. So glad we were able to meet up, even if only for a short fika!

• Sunday evening I flew back to Brussels to work while Peter drove to his parents' summer house. I had to work for another two weeks, however, I flew to Sweden for the weekend, and Peter and the kids joined me in Stockholm where we stayed in his parents' apartment. That weekend I also had the opportunity to join a farewell get-together for a colleague from my old (or Swedish) job (and did karaoke for the first time in ages and "better than good" as the saying goes...). While I was on my own in Brussels for two weeks (or ten working days) I did a little unpacking and fixing but also took the opportunity to go out with colleagues and friends, for example girls' night to celebrate P's birthday. The first few days alone felt rather lonely but then got used to it and the second week I started longing for the kids (and Peter too of course) again, even though I had seen them at the weekend :) And great weather had come to Sweden while I was shivering in 14'C Brussels and had to turn the heating on as I was all alone in a big house!
• Then on 11 July I flew to Sweden again, but this time for four weeks holiday! But more about that in a separate post!

April's Gone

May already and more than a month since I last wrote, so time for a little recap.

• Lots of work for me. This time of the year, March-May, will always be very busy, even though the busy period started already in January.
• But at the same time, April means Easter and we were able to spend almost 10 days in Sweden. We had a much more relaxing schedule than last time we were home at Christmas and spent most of the time with family but met with a few sets of friends. We also ticked off a few "duties" on our list, dentist for Peter and Isolde (first ever visit for her - it went well and she opened her mouth long enough for them to count her teeth), vaccination shots for Isolde, belated one-year check-up at BVC for Harald, and doctor's appointment for me to get migraine medicine (here in Belgium they only have these huge packs that only holds three pills while I can get a pack of 30 in Sweden).

Traditional Finnish Easter eggs and Finnish (Danish?) smørrebrød at Thomas & Minna's new flat on Easter Saturday.

Easter decoration à la Isolde

Harald is enjoying that all playgrounds in Sweden have swings

Easter cake helper

Eating corn snacks in his sleep...

Time to fly back to Brussels

• Spring comes earlier here than in Sweden (and this year it is an usually early spring apparently) and in mid-April it looked and smelled like Sweden in May. You know those flowers you associate with the last few weeks of school before summer vacation. But here that is very much April rather than May. Now it is completely green. The cherry trees blossomed at in mid-March and the magnolia was almost withering by the end of March. The lilac are still in bloom though.
• We finished the month of April with Walpurgis Eve / Valborg celebrations at the Scandinavian School in Waterloo on 30 April together with our new neighbours, Swedish T., Welsh M. and their daughter E.

• E. also started attending Isolde's school at the end of April. They are not in the same class but the two classes spend the afternoons together.

Off to school on E's first day

• We have also made some more definite plans for our continued stay here in Belgium. Peter will be working for his Swedish employer until the end of the year - still on parental leave until August and after that, remote working either from home or from his company's office here in Brussels. That will give him more time to find a job here.
• We also started looking for houses to rent here in April, and this week Tuesday we signed for a very nice house in the same neighbourhood where we live now (so we don't have to change schools/crêche)! We are so excited! We will get access at the beginning of June so now we are looking into moving our furniture from Sweden here. As our tenants in the Stockholm flat have moved out and we are looking for new tenants we have the opportunity to move the furniture and then let it unfurnished instead.

Our new house!

• In the saga that is Harald's computer addiction he managed to break my iPhone screeen while we were in Sweden but luckily it didn't cost me too much to fix it. Unnecessary of course but it is very difficult to say no to him sometimes! Now I have problems with the LCD screen under the glass and sometimes I can hardly see what I'm doing so it's time to buy a new one (and I should probably complain to the repair place in Sweden but I don't think I kept the receipt...)!

Must. Get. The. Computer.

• We have hung out with the neighbours and been to one housewarming party of an old acquaintance from my stagiaire days who also lives here now (they came to our drink in March as well). Unfortunately in April we had to say goodbye to our good friends Chris & Jacqui who moved back to the UK after four years in Belgium (after before that four years in Sweden where we first met them). We miss them so much! Luckily it is not too far to the UK from here and especially not to Kent in south England where they live now.

We will miss little Emilie and her brother Daniel, and their parents of course!

• Our dear friends and neighbours P & O brought back some shoes for our kids from Spain where they spent Easter. Shoes are so much cheaper there! And it's good quality leather shoes! We will need to put in another order for their next visit! :)

• And the kids are growing and learning new things! Isolde is drawing cars and Harald is practising his fine motor skills.

Little Gardener

We're at the country house over the long weekend (Valborg, the celebration of spring's arrival, followed by May Day), our first time time since autumn. I'm so happy we could go because a few days we thought chicken pox was in the house and that we'd have to stay home. But looks like it was just a reaction to the MMR vaccination a week ago and today she's fever free (and we've learnt how alert children can be despite 40.3 temperature). Today was a sunny albeit a bit chilly day and Peter helped his parents with the spring cleaning of the garden while I took care of the little helper (?) and read in the sunshine while Isolde was sleeping.

Happy Easter!

Glad påsk!

(No sweets in Isolde's Easter egg yet though.)

God fortsättning!*

I forgot to wish everybody a Merry Christmas here on the blog but maybe Boxing Day (where it's celebrated) is not too late to do it?!

Isolde is on the move now.  She stands without support and she has taken mini or semi-steps.  I wouldn't call them real steps but she's definitely almost there.  Will keep you posted!

* One of those expressions that is difficult to translate

Happy Christmas! / God jul!

Show & Tell: Half-Year Check, Second Half 2009

I'm over two weeks late with my Show & Tell posts so I thought I'd better get them done before it's time for the last theme of the month (and before Christmas). Nilla's second theme of the month was Lucia - more about that below - and her third theme, to provide a half-year check, i.e. an inventory of the last six months of 2009 through photos, starts here! (All photos can be enlarged with a simple click!)

JULY

I worked most of July. It was the first month of the Swedish Presidency of the EU so it was quite hectic despite it being the height of the Swedish holiday period. I went twice to London on business and to the political week in Almedalen (a Swedish institution!) as usual. A very good friend and colleague H. sadly left us for Oslo :( On the bright side Peter's cousin S. got married and we had a great time at the wedding, or the party rather (which included inpromptu rope jumping and climbing...).



AUGUST

August equals holiday! We spent a lovely week in the southern and south-western parts of Sweden, followed by 10 days or so in the US, seeing both the west and east coasts (which reminds me I haven't finished my travel diaries from there). Since I will definitely write more posts about the US holiday I have just included our Swedish road trip in the collage.



SEPTEMBER

I went back to work on 1 September. It was still summer though for most of September, resulting in lunches out on terraces and balconies up until the very end of the month! I went on a very interesting work trip to London, where we simulated the climate negotiations (which went roughly in the same directions as the real ones...) As for our social calendar, we fit in one wedding and two crayfish parties.

OCTOBER

October was cold, much colder than normal, and we didn't have much sunshine (though it wasn't as bad as November...). Highlights of the month were a Michael Jackson tribute party, taking a friend's daughter to Walking with Dinosaurs and attending our good friends C. & J.'s son's baptism.



NOVEMBER


If October was bad weather-wise, November was just pure misery. Stockholm had 17 instead of the usual 55 hours of sun (average). Luckily we saw some sun on a weekend trip to Berlin (which I blogged about here). November featured the births of two babies in my circle of friends, a christening and a surprise party for a friend who turned 40 (same friend whose son was baptised the month before). We also bought some wild boar from a friend whose husband goes hunting and made minced meat (among other things); the mince are now meatballs that we will devour as part of our Christmas meal tomorrow!



DECEMBER

And now it's December, a month dominated by Advent and Christmas preparations. Which brings us to Lucia. Nowadays, at least for the last four years, the only Lucia celebration that I'm a part of is the one at work. I'm not a singer (even though I always used to be on the school choir) so I don't join the other girls (yeah, mostly girls), instead I just enjoy the glögg and lussekatter with the performance. But when I think of Lucia in general I think about memories of Lucia performances with my cousins for my grandparents at 6 am in the morning, being one of the contestants for the "role" of Lucia in ninth grade (didn't win needless to say), going to pretty wild "Lucia wake" parties during upper secondary school, and celebrating Lucia at (or organised by) the Swedish churches in New York, London and Brussels.

December also saw a great colleague leaving us after four years - he's the one in the Pippi wig! :)

Check out my last inventory from June!

Show & Tell: Advent

Short post today just to give you a flavour of what is gradually making its way from the basement up to the flat. Unfortunately I couldn't go to church today due to helping a friend with a home refurbishment project, otherwise Advent is my favourite time of the year churchwise. It feels like Advent came so quickly this year. Can't believe Christmas is less than a month away! I think it has to do with the relatively mild weather we've been having. I want snow! Well, not snow from now on to Christmas but at least one proper snowfall so that it starts feeling like winter and the holiday season!

Show & Tell: Slow

Västmanländskan's second theme of the month is slow or långsam in Swedish. She presumably chose this theme because it was långfredagen yesterday, the Swedish name for Good Friday, which translates "long Friday". Traditionally this was a day of tedious waiting as one was not supposed to do anything, at least not anything fun, in order to honour Jesus who suffered and died on this particular day. Well until the 1970s Swedish radio only played hymns and there was a ban on public entertainment (until 1969), and shops were closed on this day. My mum, who is born in 1954, has told me that when she was growing up she had an aunt who was very religious and wanted the day to remain solemn. Luckily for my mum, her father was more of the secular kind and used to play cards with my mum and her sister when the aunt wasn't watching.

I had quite a slow day yesterday, though not necessarily boring. My dad didn't pick me up until 1pm (I'm spending a few days at my parents while Peter is skiing with the lads) so I had a lazy morning. And the afternoon and evening was mostly eating and hanging out with my parents and my grandfather. My dad and I took a walk with my grandfather - a very slow walk since he walks with a cane and must not rush.

Today the weather has been absolutely gorgeous and I have spent most of it sitting outside in the sunshine reading. My mum and I also took a little trip to a flower nursery which also has an antique shop (where I found a birthday present for a friend). This evening my dad and I took a walk, admittedly quite a bit longer and in a much higher pace than yesterday's walk but still very relaxing. While I'm writing this I'm sipping some camomile tea - the drink with the ultimate calming effect.

I think this is what Easter is supposed to be like. Christmas can be very hectic as there are so many things to do beforehand and people to see during, but Easter is a time to slow down, get some rest from work and catch up with yourself. Maybe a new start, in the way Jesus came back to life (except for his later ascension).

This weekend my thoughts also go the IT team at work who compared to me do not have a slow weekend. Instead they are working hard on deploying our new IT system. If everything goes smoothly (fingers crossed) the new equipment will replace the completely archaic and slow system we have now. The "future" has been delayed for several years - when I started working there three years ago, I was told we were going to get our new computers "soon" - but on Tuesday slow is no more! By the way, speaking of slow IT, as I'm writing this on my parents' super-slow computer I'm not able to upload any photos to go with the post :)

Enjoy the rest of the weekend!

Show & Tell: Christmas Preparations

I thought the theme this week (well, Friday three days ago; I'm late again in the usual fashion) was Christmas presents preparations but since I haven't bought too many presents yet (and don't want to reveal what I'm planning either since certain people read this blog!), I figured that I would just write about Christmas preparations. But then I looked at Marianne's blog again - she's been the hostess of the theme in November - and realised the theme is Christmas traditions. Oh well. I will just show you some of the Advent decorations we have put up so far and how far I have got in my preparations.

I guess this picture would have been better had I actually lit the first Advent candle... Oh well. This is our living room window anyway. I wasn't sure if I should put out tomten already now or wait until nearer Christmas but Peter hinted he wanted it so now it sits there and waits.

This little golden tree makes those long, dark winter evenings warm and cosy.

This is my parents old Advent candle holder. I like the wrought iron and the red (electric) candles!

The balcony is also ready for winter - the trees are supposed to survive winter if they are properly insulated with bark in a sack clothing - and decorated with what is probably the neighbourhood's brightest lights :)

Also wanted to show the amaryllis that my parents gave us - it's well over a metre tall!
Hope it doesn't fall over!

The glögg (mulled wine) has been purchased for Friday's get-together when Céline and Diego visits from Barcelona. I'm particularly curious about the chocolate glögg in the black bottle.

Finally, a collection of Christmas presents bought so far.